Thursday, July 22, 2010

PASSIONATE LOVER

Be my passionate lover
It’s only you I want under my cover

Softly kiss my anxious lips
As you move your hands down my hips

I quiver when u touch my breast
And whisper softly, when on it your lips rest

Hold my head, Let me struggle for air
As you Move your fingers through my silky hair

Be my passionate lover

Moving towards the night
I start to think, sex, I think I might.

As you start to raven
I feel like oh, down comes heaven

On the bed as we roll
Craving, my body wants you to enroll

Moaning as you do push-up
My point of satisfaction was nearly up

Be my passionate lover

Just when you reach your max
Griping you tight as ever, I reached my climax

With you in my life
Now and forever, I will feel alive

Be my passionate lover.

Wednesday, July 21, 2010

THE QUEST FOR BEAUTY AND BRAINS

Liberia is no doubt a land of beautiful women. I sometimes sit at strategic places just to see beautiful women and girls go about their normal businesses. I have a saying that goes “in Liberia, one can’t stare at one beautiful woman for more than 30sec cause you’ll miss the view of 5 more beautiful ones” and yet they say “the beautiful one are yet to be born”.  It sometimes answers my question as to why it’s difficult to find faithful men here in Liberia.



The older men in Liberia confuse these beauties at young ages with little money and distract these young girls from focusing on their education. These girls become consumed with looking good and keeping up with the latest fashion to have more men reach out to them. Our pride, our future mothers and sisters grow to own a cv of high profile men in their lives than a cv of high educational status and good job experiences.  Having a man who’s older than you 10, 20 to 30 years have become “the order of the day or the way of life”. The key to success has changed from education to the kinds of men in your life. What a sad thing.




What’s more than sad how hard it is to find beautiful ones who are smart and focused. This brings us to “The quest for beauty and brains in one package”. Don’t get me wrong, there are smart women and girls in Liberia, but finding one with physical beauty and brain is rare.  The cold hands of fashion and a good cv  of high profile men have diminished the learning capacity of these girls. Because we Liberians hardly see a beautiful girl with brains these days, the success of one is questioned and attributed to only her beauty. 



I remember when I first came to Monrovia from Maryland County in 2004, I was young and very beautiful then and I wanted to be in fashion and become popular amongst my peer and even beyond. The second thing was I needed support for school and my up keep. It took me four months to study the way of life here and figured out how to get all I wanted. Before joining “their way of life”, I couldn’t afford to buy lunch if I came to town nor could I afford transportation many days. But it all changed when I got we call “someone to sponsor me”. I became glamorous, I entered school, started becoming popular and life became easy. What I didn’t do was forget that I came to Monrovia to go to college. I studied hard with the boys, became known by my teachers for being smart and focus. I wanted to become popular even in school, so I studied harder so that I could be noticed in class and  I also joined student politics to become more visible.  I always wanted to make my parents who were back in Maryland proud of me. 


After a couple of years and as I went far in school and achieved most the things I wanted, I came to realize how exploiting a sponsor can be to you. I realized that what they give you is peanuts and I could find a young guy who could do the same for me. I also realized that I could also work and get the same things.  I started doing contracts with a consulting firm and getting my own money. I decided to call it quit with the whole ‘Sponsor” thing by the third year of my stay in Monrovia. I figured that what matters is not the mistakes we’ve made, but the actions we’ve taken to correct them. 



I came to realize that with education, you can get all you desire without being exploited and being a beautiful girl without brains. I do hope many you girls can come to realize the same thing. 


Beautiful girls in Liberia are faced with poverty. They can’t all the time be blamed because a girl got to survive. They are sometimes constrained to go after these men because; they are the bread winners for their families. Some can’t afford to go to school because scholarships are not being given to scholars.



More has to be done for the young generation of our beloved country Liberia. 



There are still a few beauties with brains and I do see them. All we need is to have more of them. Liberia can now boast of Madame Ellen Johnson Sirleaf, Olubanke King Akerele, Jewel Howard Taylor, Saran Kaba Jones, just to name a few beauties with brains who we can emulate.



Keep your dreams alive. Understand to achieve anything requires faith and belief in yourself, vision, hard work, determination, and dedication. Remember all things are possible for those who believe.  Gail Devers

Market Places Are Their Homes and Market Stalls Their Beds

It all came to be known when a team of us from Youth Action International, headed by our Executive Director, Kimmie Weeks, embarked on a seven-hour drive from the Liberian border to Kono, Sierra Leone, to investigate for ourselves the plight of the street children of Kono. We worked to help the street children of Liberia, and now we were going to see what we could learn about the street children of Sierra Leone.

Upon our arrival, we made arrangements to meet and talk with the street children of Kono. We left our hotel rooms at twelve midnight and headed to the market on motorcycles. It was the best time to find them, because that’s when they need shelter.

The market was a huge rectangle covered with zinc and divided into stalls, a shelter with a roof and stalls but no walls. It doesn’t protect the children from splashing rain, wind, or heavy storms. The children sleep both under and above these stalls. They live and breathe dirt. We discovered that the street children of Kono have a whole government. They go out in shifts to “work” according to their ages. Makike, their head, is a polio victim who is known by everyone in the vicinity as “The Notorious One”.

Makike explained to us that children between the ages eight to sixteen go out during the day, from 7:00 AM till night to steal, and the older children go out at night. They all steal the same things—money, phones, food, spoons, dishes, jewelry, clothes, shoes etc.—and report these things to Makike before they are used or sold. If your property was stolen and you want it back, you contact Makike and get it back by paying a set amount for it.

The sad and wandering lives of these children and young people, from age eight to twenty-five, begin with different stories, but all have the same basis of abuse and abandonment. As we went on talking with the children, we learned how each one of them ended up on the streets. Some were taken from their villages by family members who promised their parents to send them to school and make life better for them. Instead, they were tuned into petty traders. At the end of a day’s sale, when they returned home and it was time for accountability, if there was a shortage in the reports, severe actions were taken against them.

Little children under the age of ten were sometimes starved for days; some were beaten mercilessly with electric wires or other harsh whipping instruments. Some of the scars left were so horrible, I shivered seeing them. Some of the children suffered broken bones. There was one young man whose hands were burned for returning more change to a customer. This brought tears pouring down my cheeks. Due to such treatment, the children left their homes to survive by stealing. Others had no parents (deceased) and had to survive on their own. Some were once in orphanages that closed due to lack of support.

We could see that these children were willing to do or participate in whatever was necessary to improve their lives. Just by hearing us speak of the hope of a new life, we could see joy in their faces and hear it the tone of their voices. They were tired of the cold wind against their bodies at night; tired of having nowhere to rest during the day; tired of knowing that some days there would be no food; tired of getting beaten down mercilessly when caught stealing; tired of being treated like rags.

The street children of Kono are crying out for help. They need a better life. They need places to live. They need to know how to sustain and provide for themselves legally. They know what they want. They are willing to go into orphanages that can provide their basic needs; they need skills and loans. They long to be loved and accepted and live a normal life. They long to fit into society. They are drowning and need to be rescued before it’s too late.

The meeting was a good, heartfelt and inspiring one, but I left there without a heart. I left my heart with them, a heart full of hope. Hope, that as they stretch out their hands to be helped, someone, somewhere, will grasp just the tips of their fingers. That someone will hear the last echo of their voices. That someone will reach out a rope and pull them out of that sinking sand.


A GIST OF ME ( HOW WELL DO U KNOW ME?)


1) Ironically, I am not the best friend one can have….. I’m not always there when u call, but I’m always on time…….

2) I’m always smiling, cause it makes others around me comfortable and that way, I can get whatever I want. Lol

3) I like politics, like the feeling of knowing the decisions I make affects or impacts the lives of so many. In a positive way na…. Oh… least I forget, I don’t to be a legislator or run for any public office….

4) When I was 5, I wanted to become an astronaut, Miss Liberia, and some day the 1st Lady of Liberia. As of yet, I haven’t achieved one. Astronaut, my parents didn’t have the money, Miss Liberia, hmmm…it doesn’t have the prestige it once did when I was 5. 1st Lady, that will be by the grace of God, Can’t even see the light lol, with God all things are possible.

5) I believe CHANGE is an eminent factor to society. Be it radical or whatever…….

6) I’m a talkative. I like to engage people in discussions. That’s how I learn.

7) I’m a Libra… so I can be trusted, I like justice and I’m a natural diplomat. I can be flirtatious

8) I love to travel, gives me a sense of comfort. Makes me feel like I’m breaking barrels or the world is in my hands... Don’t ask me how

9) I love to be in love… makes me feel safe. It’s my fall back or back up in times of trouble or stress.

10) I love my history (background) and is proud of it. If you know where you’re from, then you’ll know where you’re headed.

11) I love love Liberia. I do believe “The love of Liberty brought us together and not “The love of Liberty brought us here”

12) I love the raining season….

13) Some say I have a “big mouth” I say, I have “the guts”. If you can’t stand the heat, stay out of the kitchen.

14) I love to fill a room with my presence, but doing so quietly…. Does that make me a show off… no!!!! because I do it quietly..lol

15) I love to be on top of my game… lol.. but who doesn’t???

16) I love friends.. having a lot of them makes me feel rich. I don’t ignore a friend request on Facebook or Hi5…lol I even opened a second page on Facebook..

17) I like to test the waters. I’m a little defiant. Like to speak out when no one wants to.

18) Some say I’m bold or too direct and I do shake hands like a guy (firm).

19) I like shoes.. Fashionable shoes. It brings out the sophistication of my old fashion style of dress. I like vintage clothing lol……They say I’m congo-rish


20) I know I can be what I wanna be… I do hope to bring great change or make my mark in the Liberian Foreign sector. Don’t forget, I’m a natural diplomat….lol

21) My favorite male artist is Chris Brown, I believe everyone should be given a second chance….

22) I would love to have a family someday, …. I thinking soon, if I find him. Can’t wait to have my first child. I don’t want to ever divorce. I’m lazy with home chores… when I was little, I use to tell my mom when I grow up I’ll pay people to do that for me. if my boss was doing all his job, I won’t have to work…lol

23) I lack patience for the weak and slow ones… I feel they can catch up later, if not now. Lets move on without them..

24) I want to teach some day. Share some of the knowledge I’ve acquired. I’ll try to work on #23 when I’m a teacher

25) I have a good appetite for food. I love to eat. People wonder where the food goes… I say, my big toe..lol…

26) I love to dance. It’s a good exercise for me. it’s good to work out while having fun. But I’m still not a good dancer.


27) The best part of a meal is the last one. I don’t give out my last food….lol

28) I can tolerate anything as long as it’ll get me what I want or to where I want. Play the fool to gain wisdom

29) I believe in God, I’m not holy holy, but he’s always there for me when I call. Shhh….I think he loves me, but doesn’t want to make it public.

30) I like to see my friends succeed in life, cause I know they will always be of help to me.